Contentment
Valentines day is coming up, and for all the single people out there (like me) it’s not usually up there with the most highly anticipated days of our lives. And no matter how much you pad up for it, this is one day that always seems to sow a seed of discontentment about your lot in life.
Last year I handled it famously by getting my wisdom teeth taken out on the day. It sounded good at the time but in retrospect wasn’t the wisest decision I’ve ever made. Now this year I have a brilliant, fantastic, pain free idea, bound to save anyone from the wellingtons day blues…

Actually I think it’s exactly what Jesus meant when He said: “Truly, Truly I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.” (John 12:24-25). He seems to be saying that you won’t have lived until you’ve learnt to die.
Recently I’ve been feeling like my life is going through a bit of a rut. Actually ‘rut’ may not be the best word as ‘rut’ implies movement, of which I don’t seem to be experiencing any. I’d like to think that I’m always growing in my relationship with God and moving faster toward completing some impossible task he’s set before me, but in reality it’s not happening right now. Nothing’s happening actually. Not even a breeze. Now for someone like me who can’t sit still even for a minute, that pretty much amounts to torture. But what really frightens me about the whole situation is the realisation that the difference between a rut and a grave is only a couple of centimeters…
At our last Bible study a rather random question surfaced: “If you saw a bench with a sign on it saying ‘Wet paint’, would you still touch it?” All of the guys agreed that they would. Thinking that it may be just a guy thing (since it was a guys’ Bible study), we promptly got sms’ing some ladies in our address books to ask them the question as well. It turns out that it’s not a guy thing, as most ladies would also touch it… So it got me thinking why?